In
the process of identifying my subculture I thought about my childhood, growing
up and what influenced me to be the person I am today.
I
grew up with an older brother and a sister. There is one year difference between us three so we had similar sizes and shared the same hobbies when we were young.
My
father used to take us out to the park, to the beach,to the pool, camping and on trips. He
taught all of us the same things for example how to ride a bike, play soccer, swim, ride a
canoe, climb
trees and catch snails and crabs. Random stuff you know pretty much everything
a girl should learn about.
My
mother used to stay in the house and she preferred to help us with our homework. She
taught us how to cook, clean, hand sew clothes for our dolls, behave properly,
get dress, do our hair and look pretty.
She sent me this picture of me at my primary school and told me that I
used to ask to wear my brother's clothes because
I loved to run and play any game therefore skirts and tights didn't really work for me.
My
parents never told me I couldn't do this or that because I was a girl. They taught me everything they knew which gave me two different
perspectives and made me think I could combine what I liked the most about
both and do things my own way and it also taught me not to have preconceptions
about anything. One of the things I still remember and love the most about my childhood is the freedom of having a lot of choices and don’t obey to restrictions
of social gender rules.
I always liked to be a
tomboy because it was so much fun and all the running and climbing made me feel
free and full of life. This has had a massive impact on the way I dress now. Now I express myself through clothes which make me feel comfortable,confident and free.
When I
went to College I joined a hip hop group and I started being more conscious about my looks because I could see what my friends and my sisters were wearing. Music videos, movies, magazines
and night clubs inspired me to combine my tomboy look with chic. I started dressing
up more and wearing fitted clothes combining them with loose because I still
love my comfort. I became more sexy. I learned how to braid
my own hair and do extensions. I also started using make up besides foundation I never used it because I never needed it and the tomboy in me didn't tallow me to do that to my face..Also I started wearing heels,carrying bags and wearing loads of jewellery.